Whindersson Nunes Reveals How High Intelligence Impacted His Relationships

In a candid interview with "Fantástico" this Sunday, acclaimed Brazilian comedian and YouTuber Whindersson Nunes opened up about his diagnosis of "high abilities" or "giftedness" (superdotação), which he received last year. Nunes revealed that this condition, characterized by an above-average IQ, significantly impacted his past romantic relationships, citing "impulsivity" as the primary reason.

From Addiction to Diagnosis: Unveiling the Struggles

During the program, Whindersson Nunes detailed the reasons behind his admission to a rehabilitation clinic for alcohol addiction. He shared, "I wanted to understand why I had this urge to finish the bottle, not just drink a little. If I were to drink, I wanted the whole bottle. If it was too much, then I didn't want it at all." These words highlight a profound internal struggle with his desires and impulses.

It was during his time at the clinic, following a series of medical tests, that he received the official diagnosis of high abilities. This diagnosis, indicating a higher-than-average IQ, came as a surprise to Nunes. "I thought it was something very distant, but it's not, sometimes you have a certain level and you don't know," he commented.

The Psychological Toll of Giftedness

According to experts, the mental overload associated with giftedness can lead to feelings of emptiness, potentially paving the way for depression. Nunes echoed this sentiment, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness: "It's really a matter of self-knowledge. What I can do is prepare myself for these periods and not let that low point, those thoughts, that melancholy, embrace me."

"It's really a matter of self-knowledge. What I can do is prepare myself for these periods and not let that low point, those thoughts, that melancholy, embrace me."

How Giftedness Affected Romantic Relationships

Speaking with reporter Ana Carolina Raimundi, Whindersson Nunes disclosed another facet of how his condition affected his personal life. He discovered that his giftedness was a significant factor in why his previous relationships did not succeed.

"Compulsivity and impulsivity," Nunes summarized these challenges. He elaborated, "In a relationship, people have schedules, they have routines, and it was quite difficult for me in my relationships because my mind sometimes works at specific times." This difference in rhythm and thought patterns created a barrier to harmony and mutual understanding.

Embracing Life with Giftedness

Concluding the interview, Whindersson Nunes stated that he is no longer trying to overcome his condition but is learning to live with it. "My quest now is more about knowing myself and understanding where my art comes from. Sometimes people are looking for other things, for victory, and I'm no longer thinking about that," the YouTuber affirmed. This shift in focus from "conquering" to "coexisting" signifies a maturity and awareness of the importance of self-acceptance.

Nunes's revelations shed light on the unique challenges faced by individuals with high abilities, not only in their careers but also in their personal relationships, underscoring the critical need for self-understanding and psychological support.